Fat as Hell…

and not going to take it anymore!

By Any Other Name…

It’s Valentines Day and, I have to admit that, normally I’m pretty cynical about these things. I hate the consumer mentality that causes people to blow tons of money on things that are both frivolous and extravagant. A socialist at heart, I always feel more than a little uncomfortable in any position that smells even a tad bit elitist. And yet, when these arrived at work today, I have to admit that I was terribly pleased. My husband, although always very sweet and always very good to me, has never been a ‘flowers’ kind of guy. Practical to the core, spending a lot of money on something that’s just going to die in a few days has never been his thing, so when I was called to the office this morning to “pick something up,” it honestly never occurred to me that it might be because he’d sent me flowers. In fact, when the secretary looked at me and said “these are yours,” I responded in complete sincerity, “are you sure?”


It was a lovely surprise and made me feel very special.

This week has been stressful and I’ve not been particularly strong when it comes to eating right or exercising. Well… that’s not entirely true. I’ve actually done fairly well when it comes to choosing healthy foods. I’ve just been eating far more of them than I really need to be eating and the result has been too many calories. That coupled with little to no exercise has made for a week that I fear has me headed for a weight gain.

The thing is, losing weight is hard work and hard work requires attention, dedication and will power — all of which have been in short supply this week. It doesn’t help that I haven’t been getting enough sleep and that by the time I get home each evening I’m fairly well worn out. None of these things are excuses, but they have taught me a couple of things.

First, sleep is an important component of my ability to be successful in all of this. I haven’t gotten enough sleep this week and it’s impacted my judgment, my will power and the sheer strength I need to hop on the exercise bike for even a few minutes. As much I hate to admit it, I’m not as young as I used to be and I need a full 8 hours of sleep each night if I’m going to be in top form the next day. Furthermore, I need to be in top form if I’m going to do what is necessary to continue taking weight off.

Second, when I know that I’m headed for extra stress or for a schedule that promises to be busier than usual, it is essential that I pre plan for it. I read lots of blogs in which people pre plan their weekly meals. Until recently, I thought that kind of looking ahead was well, a little loony. But no more. I doubt I’ll ever be the kind of girl who, under normal circumstances, puts together her menu a week in advance, but if I’ve learned anything from this week it is that I’m more likely to be successful during periods of high stress if I’ve already established a plan for that success. It’s a lot easier to just *follow* a plan when you’ve got a million other things going on around you than it is to have to make one *and* follow it.

And finally, I’ve learned that getting upset over a few caloric or fitness stumbles does nothing to fix the problem. I’ve eaten a few too many pieces of dark chocolate this week. I had the 8oz salmon instead of the 6oz serving. I ate 2 pieces of whole grain bread with dinner instead of just one, and yes, I put some butter on it. But all of that is over now. There’s nothing I can do to change it… and getting upset will only make future slip ups all the more likely. So… I’m letting it go. I have enough to worry about.

Anyway… this week’s been tough, and next week promises to be equally so. I’m just trying to hang on until next Thursday when a number of projects will be swept off my plate for good. In the meantime, I’m going to try to get more sleep. I’m going to do as much planning ahead as possible and I’m not going to freak out when I veer a little too far away from those plans.

And I’m going to take time to “smell the roses.” Such treats don’t come around that often… I’m going to enjoy them.


February 14, 2008 - Posted by | losing weight | , , , , , , , , , ,


  1. Happy Valentine’s Day!

    Comment by inspiredbrio | February 14, 2008 | Reply

  2. As much as we don’t go for the hoopla, it is lovely to get flowers.

    Hope you had a great evening!

    Comment by hanlie | February 15, 2008 | Reply

  3. Hey, happy V.Day and enjoy your flowers!
    I can’t stress it enough, Planning is the best weight loss tool. it never fails, and I’m glad you realized sleep is paramount too. How well I sleep always has a direct effect on the intensity of my workouts. have a good week end,

    Comment by Karine | February 15, 2008 | Reply

  4. I think the flowers are lovely and you deserve them! Now tell my husband to send some LOL.

    Comment by lululeelee | February 15, 2008 | Reply

  5. you really do deserve those flowers.

    please don’t ever give up on this because even though our situations aren’t quite the same, the fact that you keep at it and you keep going is so powerful and amazing to me.
    you honestly inspire me so much.

    thank you.

    Comment by cleis | February 15, 2008 | Reply

  6. I like flowers but I don’t like it when they die sooner -if they have been chilled – or later. My son-in-law gave me a Phalenopsis orchid for my birthday in early October and today 16 February it dropped its last flower and with a bit of luck if I prune it correctly it will come back again next year. I have had four months of enjoying its beauty.

    Comment by Sharon | February 16, 2008 | Reply

  7. Thanks everyone! Your kind words of support are helping to cheer me along!

    Cleis: Wow! Thank you! If you have a blog, please leave me the link so I can sneak a peek, ok? And thanks so much for leaving me a few bits of yourself here. They mean a great deal.


    Comment by justoofat | February 17, 2008 | Reply

  8. Sorry! I didn’t read this until today, or else I would have replied sooner.

    right now, I’m at cleis.wordpress.com
    but I think I’m going to be a little unoriginal and move to


    Comment by cleis | March 2, 2008 | Reply

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